<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3594537697319557142</id><updated>2012-02-16T07:44:17.959-08:00</updated><title type='text'>SWARM Tips</title><subtitle type='html'></subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://swarmtips.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3594537697319557142/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://swarmtips.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>Rex Miller</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18102221497318793973</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>1</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3594537697319557142.post-655245076390885764</id><published>2007-02-08T19:32:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2007-02-08T19:56:05.311-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Train Your Sources</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://bp3.blogger.com/_aDyOL6CBwPs/RcvwQD9yYcI/AAAAAAAAAB0/u5s7YC8_UPw/s1600-h/hands+that+plea.jpg"&gt;&lt;img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5029377567622324674" style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; CURSOR: hand" alt="" src="http://bp3.blogger.com/_aDyOL6CBwPs/RcvwQD9yYcI/AAAAAAAAAB0/u5s7YC8_UPw/s320/hands+that+plea.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="justify"&gt;We assume friends and colleagues remember to pass along information about pending opportunities. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="justify"&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="justify"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Why? - Because their our friends, of course.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="justify"&gt;Reality - they are busy and probably don't really know what a good opportunity looks like for you. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="justify"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="justify"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="justify"&gt;Remedy - make it easy.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;div align="justify"&gt;Build trust and an interest to help. How? By helping them first. If you show sincere interest and take initiative to help someone else they feel compelled by the "law of reciprocity."&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;div align="justify"&gt;Describe specific criteria, for example: "I'm looking for a company with more than 100 employees, growing and working in old furniture." When you paint a target people remember and automatically begin to see opportunities they didn't before. Psychologists actually have a word for this; "selective awareness."&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;div align="justify"&gt;Tell a story that captures what you do and how you are different. People remember stories - they don't remember details. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;div align="justify"&gt;When someone provides a lead express appreciation. It takes effort to break out of the momentum of the day to help someone else. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;div align="justify"&gt;Finally, provide feedback so the person knows if it met your criteria or not. I work with some phenomenal brokers and each of them immediately follows up on the information I provide and lets me know if it was useful, why and how I can improve it next time. I love it because I want to look out for and find those sweet opportunities. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;p align="justify"&gt;It's simple - just not easy.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3594537697319557142-655245076390885764?l=swarmtips.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://swarmtips.blogspot.com/feeds/655245076390885764/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=3594537697319557142&amp;postID=655245076390885764' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3594537697319557142/posts/default/655245076390885764'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3594537697319557142/posts/default/655245076390885764'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://swarmtips.blogspot.com/2007/02/train-your-sources.html' title='Train Your Sources'/><author><name>Rex Miller</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18102221497318793973</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://bp3.blogger.com/_aDyOL6CBwPs/RcvwQD9yYcI/AAAAAAAAAB0/u5s7YC8_UPw/s72-c/hands+that+plea.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry></feed>
